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69 Dirty Things to Say to Your BDSM Partner

Roxana Vieyra

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Sex is much more than the sense of physical touching. Get more of your senses involved and explore our list of dirty things to say to your partner. It can help put you and your partner in another frame of mind and maybe even help deepen the commitment to your character in role-playing.

  1. “You belong to me tonight.”
  2. “I’m going to make you beg for it.”
  3. “You look so good when you’re tied up.”
  4. “Do you like being my good little submissive?”
  5. “I’m going to punish you for that.”
  6. “Tell me how much you want it.”
  7. “You’re not allowed to speak until I say so.”
  8. “Only I decide when you get to come.”
  9. “You look so helpless and delicious right now.”
  10. “Beg me to touch you.”
  11. “You’re mine to use however I want.”
  12. “You’re not allowed to move until I give you permission.”
  13. “Scream for me.”
  14. “I love hearing you beg.”
  15. “You will do exactly as I say.”
  16. “Your pleasure belongs to me.”
  17. “You’re going to take everything I give you.”
  18. “I’m going to tease you until you can’t take it anymore.”
  19. “You have no control here.”
  20. “I want to hear you say my name.”
  21. “You look so pretty when you’re in pain.”
  22. “Every touch, every kiss, is at my discretion.”
  23. “You exist for my pleasure tonight.”
  24. “I love seeing you so vulnerable.”
  25. “You’re going to be a good little toy for me.”
  26. “Feel the power I have over you.”
  27. “You’re going to remember this all day tomorrow.”
  28. “You’re going to take it just how I want you to.”
  29. “I’m going to push your limits tonight.”
  30. “You love being at my mercy, don’t you?”
  31. “I want to hear you beg for release.”
  32. “You’re going to be my plaything.”
  33. “Every sound you make turns me on.”
  34. “I’m going to make you crave my touch.”
  35. “You don’t get to touch yourself unless I say so.”
  36. “Feel how powerless you are right now.”
  37. “I’m going to drive you wild with anticipation.”
  38. “You’re going to suffer beautifully for me.”
  39. “I want you to remember who owns you.”
  40. “I’m going to make you scream my name.”
  41. “You’ll be punished if you disobey.”
  42. “Your body is mine to control.”
  43. “I love seeing you struggle.”
  44. “You’re going to take all the pleasure I give you.”
  45. “I want to hear every whimper and moan.”
  46. “You’re completely at my mercy.”
  47. “You’ll get what you want when you’ve earned it.”
  48. “I’m going to make you wait for it.”
  49. “Every mark I leave on you is a reminder of me.”
  50. “You exist to please me tonight.”
  51. “I’m going to make you crave every touch.”
  52. “You have no idea what’s coming next.”
  53. “I love seeing you squirm.”
  54. “You’re going to beg for my touch.”
  55. “I control your pleasure completely.”
  56. “I want to see how much you can take.”
  57. “You’re going to be so good for me.”
  58. “Feel the power I have over your body.”
  59. “You’ll be rewarded for your obedience.”
  60. “I love making you wait for it.”
  61. “You look so perfect under my control.”
  62. “You’ll be begging for more by the end of this.”
  63. “I’m going to make you feel things you’ve never felt before.”
  64. “Every shiver, every gasp, belongs to me.”
  65. “You’re going to be begging for mercy.”
  66. “I want to hear you say how much you love this.”
  67. “Your pleasure is entirely in my hands.”
  68. “I’m going to take you to your limits.”
  69. “You’ll do anything I say tonight.”

If your interested in more BDSM info, check out post on BDSM for beginners, our BDSM checklist and BDSM glossary.

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Roxana Vieyra

As a sexologist, I am endlessly curious to explore new pleasure pathways. Although my practice focuses on couples counseling, a vital part is helping couples reignite their passion for one another by bringing toys and sex-positive information into the bedroom.